Managing head and neck injuries in rope by Miss Doctor

Disclaimer: This writing is intended to serve as a guideline for triaging head and neck injuries that occur during play. If you have any doubts about the safety of the situation, immediately seek professional medical attention. In rope bondage, injuries happen. No matter how experienced you are as a top or bottom, I can pretty … Read more

SAFER PLAY & SEX INCLUDES HAVING CLEAN TOYS – Informed Risk Is The Key! By Archer & Elegant

Updated 22 May 2014 Copyright 2006 – 2014 Archer & Elegant, Fantasies In Leather, LLC Disinfect and Sanitize are fancy words for clean. Clean is a relative term. ~Sanitize: to free from dirt as by cleaning ~Disinfect: The use of a chemical procedure that eliminates virtually all recognized pathogenic microorganisms but not necessarily all microbial … Read more

Your First ‘Kink’ Event by Belladonnax

Your First ‘Kink’ Event by Belladonnax Here are some notes I wrote a while back which were going to be used for an Adrenachrome workshop, but I’ve decided to put them up in here. I figure there might be something helpful for someone. We are all everyday people. • It’s fine to use the name … Read more

Why I can do these things and you should NOT… by TheMasterTalon

I teach a lot of different topics and my play includes even more types of skills that I have studied and practiced for the past 16 years of Leather life. I was taught by my elders that you did not practice anything on a human until you became proficient on an inanimate object. I practiced … Read more

What’s That You Say? Reading Body Language in Play by Rev

What’s That You Say? Reading Body Language in Play  –  By Rev You’ve heard it said (and if you haven’t, it’s about time you did) that Dominants aren’t mind readers. It’s said for a reason. “Dominant-as-mind-reader” is one of those persistent stereotypes that’s hard to kill and can really cause problems for new and/or isolated … Read more

What Makes a Good Dominant – By Kim Debron

We often hear people in the scene talking about this Master or that Mistress, this Dom or that Domme, we hear good things and bad things, things to make our hair stand on end, things to make us laugh and things to make us cry. Of course believing everything bad you hear, is not a … Read more