The Myth of the Daddy

The problem with being in a roleplaying relationship is that there are inherent expectations tied to the roles that come from both parties and are born of their experiences and needs. One of the hardest things I have faced as a Daddy is that there is a level to it that goes so far beyond … Read more

The Knife [Sharp Tips for Edge Play] by TigerSyr

The Knife [Sharp Tips for Edge Play] by TigerSyr 1. Know your tool, don’t be a fool! Pick a knife that is not too heavy that you can’t wield it. Match sharpness to area of play and what you will be doing with it. Match size to area of play. Big knives are ok for … Read more

The BDSM Cult/How to be a Predator by CocoJones

The BDSM Cult/How to be a Predator by CocoJones   My entry into the kink community brought me into immediate contact with scouts for what I like to call the BDSM cult. Recruiters for abusive relationships all under the name of sexual discovery. After several run-ins and some trips down some fairly disturbing paths (ah, … Read more

The Anatomy of a Scene By Rev

If you haven’t heard me say this yet, here goes again: being into BDSM doesn’t mean you have to be into sadomasochism or “scening” (engaging in “scenes”). Having scenes doesn’t mean you have to be into sadomasochism either. And finally, being into sadomasochism doesn’t mean you have to be into dominance and submission. The acronym … Read more