Safety
Evaluating Your Rigger! by clover Before you evaluate your rigger you need to stop and evaluate yourself. You are what will keep you safe, ultimately you can only rely on yourself. •Know your body’s limits. You do not have to be an experience rope bottom to know this. When you are faced with your limit … Read more
What is Emotional Abuse? Abuse is any behavior that is designed to control and subjugate another human being through the use of fear, humiliation, intimidation, guilt, coercion, manipulation etc. Emotional abuse is any kind of abuse that is emotional rather than physical in nature. It can include anything from verbal abuse and constant criticism to … Read more
Eight Easy Ways to Spot an Emotional Manipulator Written by Fiona McColl Emotional manipulators get extra marks for subtlety. A patronizing, mind-fucker can bend and twist and warp but somehow after a period of time they set off the ol’ bullshit meter. An emotional manipulator is smoother. You’ll have to adjust the sensitivity of your … Read more
BDSM Safety and Common Sense Note: This is not intended as a “safe-sex” site. There are plenty of those available elsewhere on the Web. The focus of this page is narrower; it’s intended as a general, common-sense safety guide for newcomers to BDSM. General Guidelines • If you are going to play with bondage or … Read more
BDSM Education- First Aid Tips You use this information at your own risk and bdsm-education.com and Electric Switch of the West or any author’s articles on bdsm-education.com shall not be liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, special or consequential damages resulting from the use of anything obtained through your use of www.bdsm-education.com. This is not … Read more
BDSM 101: Subspace, Aftercare, and Sub-drop (and sometimes Top-drop) Dr Dexter SUBSPACE Within the context of BDSM, “subspace” is a an altered psychological state that is often entered into by the person bottoming in a scene. It is not easy to characterize, because each person’s reactions to BDSM play can be quite different — and … Read more
BDSM 101 – How to Survive Sub Drop After that Kinky Scene Last Week A Submissive’s Guide to Recovery Bea Amor Remember the last time you played with that delightful new dominant and the scene was so great that you floated for three whole days. Nothing in the world could have bothered you and life … Read more
Hello! I’m Heather Daisy, and you might remember me from such films as “What To Do If Your Partner Is Horny” and “What To Do If Your Partner Is Into Breath Play.” Today we explore the wide and wonderful world of TRIGGERS. A trigger is an action, word, emotion, smell or other noun that causes … Read more