It’s your first munch, eh? I bet you’re thinking… by ThoughtsofYou

It’s your first munch, eh? I bet you’re thinking… by ThoughtsofYou ORGY! ORGY! [- newbie] Whoa, slow your roll. [- oldie] Firstly, it’s nice to meet you and thanks for coming. I just want to clear some things up… Kink has a lot of reputations — good, bad, wrong and inexplicable. orgyyyyy Haha, yeah… Munches … Read more

BDSM Safety and Common Sense

BDSM Safety and Common Sens Note: This is not intended as a “safe-sex” site. There are plenty of those available elsewhere on the Web. The focus of this page is narrower; it’s intended as a general, common-sense safety guide for newcomers to BDSM. General Guidelines • If you are going to play with bondage or … Read more

DO’s & DONT’s To Party/Event Play

Recently I attended a small play party. It was afterwards I decided that perhaps some folks might need a little guidance or suggestion on how to go about getting/seeking/asking for “play” appropriately in these social situations. Let me begin by stating that I understand that attending any type of party or event can be extremely … Read more

Basic Scene Protocols By SirMagic

Basic Scene Protocols By SirMagic Most people who have entered the scene within the last couple of years really have no idea of what constitutes Basic Protocols nor what they specifically are. Over the years I have watched as the heterosexual BDSM scene has become more an more “causal” to the point where even Emily … Read more