ʜᴏᴡ ᴛᴏ: ʙʀᴜɪsᴇ by Tessiee

Bruising is a very popular topic and a frequent question that people involved in sᴍ play asks. I’ve been asked to create a more in-depth writing on this, so please use the headlines dividing the text to navigate. Comment below if you have anything to add, questions or comments about anything in this writing. Thank … Read more

SAFER PLAY & SEX INCLUDES HAVING CLEAN TOYS – Informed Risk Is The Key! By Archer & Elegant

Updated 22 May 2014 Copyright 2006 – 2014 Archer & Elegant, Fantasies In Leather, LLC Disinfect and Sanitize are fancy words for clean. Clean is a relative term. ~Sanitize: to free from dirt as by cleaning ~Disinfect: The use of a chemical procedure that eliminates virtually all recognized pathogenic microorganisms but not necessarily all microbial … Read more

Your First ‘Kink’ Event by Belladonnax

Your First ‘Kink’ Event by Belladonnax Here are some notes I wrote a while back which were going to be used for an Adrenachrome workshop, but I’ve decided to put them up in here. I figure there might be something helpful for someone. We are all everyday people. • It’s fine to use the name … Read more

What’s That You Say? Reading Body Language in Play by Rev

What’s That You Say? Reading Body Language in Play  –  By Rev You’ve heard it said (and if you haven’t, it’s about time you did) that Dominants aren’t mind readers. It’s said for a reason. “Dominant-as-mind-reader” is one of those persistent stereotypes that’s hard to kill and can really cause problems for new and/or isolated … Read more