Advice
A man once told me, “I may hurt you, but I will never harm you.” It stuck with me. And I have thought, over the years, about the difference between the two. And I realize that I have had them both done to me, and it took those experiences to be able to tell the … Read more
Normally I would refrain from writing a post on Fet for numerous reasons, be it my age, my experience, or that I just don’t feel I have anything on my mind that absolutely NEEDS to be put up for the kink world to read. That being said, recently I have seen a few interesting posts … Read more
In the lifestyle, we talk a lot about the importance of good communication skills. What do good communication skills entail? A lot of things. One of the most important of them all is being able to really listen. While listening skills are often overlooked in a relationship, they are one of the most critical aspects … Read more
How to Make It Work – Tools for Healthy Polyamorous Relationships by Brian Frederick 1. Tell the Truth. Lasting relationships are built on trust. Trust is built on honesty. Honesty isn’t hard and it’s a good habit. Bite the bullet, tell the truth. If your relationship can’t weather it, you are in the wrong relationship; … Read more
How to find a partner by rooroo original post A few people have asked me to share the content of the class I taught recently on attracting a partner. Some of this advice is very obviously directly related to finding a partner, while other bits are things that will less directly have an impact on … Read more
How to develop confidence as a Dom, Master, or Mistress? by Cowhideman Someone asked: The issue is I often get nervous to do certain acts etc. How do I gain more confidence to be the true mistress I wish to be? I answered: First thing to remember is that unless you say so, or unless … Read more
HOW TO BE A DOM: The beginners guide in 12 simple-ish steps. by Master_James_ original post You may have only just found Fetlife, you may have only just found your local Kink community, you may have only just had the epiphany that you are a Dominant. Suddenly, your life all makes sense. The penny has … Read more
How not to be shitty at parties – voyeurs and exhibitionists edition SecondCircleTO original post I’m putting this here, on the events profile, because this is a thing that profoundly irks me, and I want people who go to our events to get it – and the vast majority of you do. Also, for the … Read more