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How to develop confidence as a Dom, Master, or Mistress? by Cowhideman Someone asked: The issue is I often get nervous to do certain acts etc. How do I gain more confidence to be the true mistress I wish to be? I answered: First thing to remember is that unless you say so, or unless … Read more
HOW TO BE A DOM: The beginners guide in 12 simple-ish steps. by Master_James_ original post You may have only just found Fetlife, you may have only just found your local Kink community, you may have only just had the epiphany that you are a Dominant. Suddenly, your life all makes sense. The penny has … Read more
How not to be shitty at parties – voyeurs and exhibitionists edition SecondCircleTO original post I’m putting this here, on the events profile, because this is a thing that profoundly irks me, and I want people who go to our events to get it – and the vast majority of you do. Also, for the … Read more
What makes a Daddy a good or ‘real’ Daddy? It is not the body hair, muscles, size of his cock or his age. It is the same thing that separates a ‘boy’ from a ‘good boy’: Self Control. I’m not talking about the kind of self control that makes you not eat that 3rd bag … Read more
Helpful precautions for new submissive girls by hungandnasty A wonderful post from @RainDeGrey about a negative first experience as a sub and the dangers posed by untrustworthy Doms prompted me to write this in reply. It is a set of simple guidelines for submissive girls who are just starting out in the scene and considering … Read more
This following info is brought to you from http://www.thetwilightguard.org/ The Hanky Code (also known as the handkerchief code, the bandana code, and flagging) is a color-coded system, employed usually among the gay male or practitioners in the leather subculture in the United States, Canada, and Europe, to indicate preferred sexual fetishes, what kind of sex … Read more
Getting into BDSM Part 3: Safety. BDSM is not, in itself, super mega dangerous. It’s like any contact sport–there’s always a risk of an accident, so it’s good to be prepared, but the risk isn’t so high that you should be afraid to try it. And BDSM people are no different than any group of … Read more
Fuck Yes or No ……by Mark Manson Think about this for a moment: Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you? There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger … Read more