The Ultimate Thrill Ride: Ten Tips for BDSM Safety By Joey W. Hill, 11/20/2012 There is a growing interest in bondage in the bedroom, and many of my readers are giving it a try in an effort to spice up their sex lives. It’s fun and feels a little bit dangerous, like a roller coaster, … Read more
The Top Ten Breeches of BDSM Etiquette By Mistress Ren Growing up, we are taught the importance of etiquette – societal etiquette, business etiquette, etiquette for Grandma’s house, etc. Good etiquette is our way of showing others that we respect them. Having been in the scene for quite a while, I’ve witnessed my share of … Read more
The BDSM Cult/How to be a Predator by CocoJones My entry into the kink community brought me into immediate contact with scouts for what I like to call the BDSM cult. Recruiters for abusive relationships all under the name of sexual discovery. After several run-ins and some trips down some fairly disturbing paths (ah, … Read more
BDSM for Beginners – Safewords Red, Yellow, Green Are Just Words and Mean NOTHING by Themselves! by Caged Heart Beginning Explorers in the BDSM World hear a lot of advice from more experienced ‘players’. Unfortunately, a lot of that advice is worth nothing more than it costs…NOTHING. A person new to BDSM might hear, “Oh, … Read more
Real Party Etiquette – or – What They Do NOT Tell You © 2012 The BellaKitty May be shared with permission and credit given. So some while back, a couple of friends of mine (Tinkerbytch and Polywitch – hey that rhymes!) and i were going back and forth on something i had long thought of … Read more
By tequilarose on November 4, 2014 original post In the other article, I wrote about the differences between micromanaging and macromanaging and now I’m going to cover the differences between reactive service and proactive service. This was a little harder to do because most of what I could find online was comparing reactive service to … Read more
This is a Journal entry from Malbon’s writings on Fetlife. Munches are just great aren’t they? A free social event where you can meet other kinky people, maybe even find that elusive compatible partner. The door is open, and you are welcome. But it didn’t work out so well, did it? You felt left out, … Read more
Munch Etiquette When people ask how to become involved in kink or how to learn, the first thing they are told is “go to a munch!” Munches are a great first step, but like all first steps, they can be intimidating if you don’t know what to expect or how to behave. What is a … Read more