Etiquette
Munch Etiquette When people ask how to become involved in kink or how to learn, the first thing they are told is “go to a munch!” Munches are a great first step, but like all first steps, they can be intimidating if you don’t know what to expect or how to behave. What is a … Read more
Miss Bitch’s Guide to Dungeon Etiquette – the Revival You can deny all you want that there is etiquette, and a lot of people do in everyday life. But if you behave in a way that offends the people you’re trying to deal with, they will stop dealing with you… ~ Judith Martin, aka Miss … Read more
It’s your first munch, eh? I bet you’re thinking… by ThoughtsofYou ORGY! ORGY! [- newbie] Whoa, slow your roll. [- oldie] Firstly, it’s nice to meet you and thanks for coming. I just want to clear some things up… Kink has a lot of reputations — good, bad, wrong and inexplicable. orgyyyyy Haha, yeah… Munches … Read more
How not to be shitty at parties – voyeurs and exhibitionists edition SecondCircleTO original post I’m putting this here, on the events profile, because this is a thing that profoundly irks me, and I want people who go to our events to get it – and the vast majority of you do. Also, for the … Read more
BDSM Safety and Common Sens Note: This is not intended as a “safe-sex” site. There are plenty of those available elsewhere on the Web. The focus of this page is narrower; it’s intended as a general, common-sense safety guide for newcomers to BDSM. General Guidelines • If you are going to play with bondage or … Read more
Recently I attended a small play party. It was afterwards I decided that perhaps some folks might need a little guidance or suggestion on how to go about getting/seeking/asking for “play” appropriately in these social situations. Let me begin by stating that I understand that attending any type of party or event can be extremely … Read more
BDSM Safety and Common Sense Note: This is not intended as a “safe-sex” site. There are plenty of those available elsewhere on the Web. The focus of this page is narrower; it’s intended as a general, common-sense safety guide for newcomers to BDSM. General Guidelines • If you are going to play with bondage or … Read more
Basic Scene Protocols By SirMagic Most people who have entered the scene within the last couple of years really have no idea of what constitutes Basic Protocols nor what they specifically are. Over the years I have watched as the heterosexual BDSM scene has become more an more “causal” to the point where even Emily … Read more