Since writing my last post, I’ve gotten a lot of messages from newbies asking me, “How do I tell the difference between someone who really wants to help me, and someone who is a predator, an exploiter, someone who just wants to take advantage of me?” The short answer is: it’s not easy. If you … Read more
PRIDE and FETISH FLAG GALLERY Common symbols of pride are the rainbow pride flag, the lowercase Greek letter lambda (λ), and the pink and black triangle. This last symbol was reclaimed from use as badges of shame in Nazi concentration camps, and through reappropriation have made these symbols for gay rights. The Greek letter lambda … Read more
It’s your first munch, eh? I bet you’re thinking… by ThoughtsofYou ORGY! ORGY! [- newbie] Whoa, slow your roll. [- oldie] Firstly, it’s nice to meet you and thanks for coming. I just want to clear some things up… Kink has a lot of reputations — good, bad, wrong and inexplicable. orgyyyyy Haha, yeah… Munches … Read more
Idiot’s guide to service by RideEmWet Service-y types: Hints and Tips Congratulations, you’re now the proud beneficiary of a service-y type. Whether you own, lease, operate, or merely find yourself in temporary care of that service-y type, this guide will suggest a few hints and tips for the use and care of your service-y type. … Read more
They’re the hot item right now. Which is interesting because when I started in the kink community, there was still a lot of stigma around these identities. Littles, Baby Girls and Middles were often worried or ashamed to open up about this part of themselves. There were people at munches that would give dirty looks … Read more
Normally I would refrain from writing a post on Fet for numerous reasons, be it my age, my experience, or that I just don’t feel I have anything on my mind that absolutely NEEDS to be put up for the kink world to read. That being said, recently I have seen a few interesting posts … Read more
How to find a partner by rooroo original post A few people have asked me to share the content of the class I taught recently on attracting a partner. Some of this advice is very obviously directly related to finding a partner, while other bits are things that will less directly have an impact on … Read more
How to develop confidence as a Dom, Master, or Mistress? by Cowhideman Someone asked: The issue is I often get nervous to do certain acts etc. How do I gain more confidence to be the true mistress I wish to be? I answered: First thing to remember is that unless you say so, or unless … Read more