PRIDE and FETISH FLAG GALLERY Common symbols of pride are the rainbow pride flag, the lowercase Greek letter lambda (λ), and the pink and black triangle. This last symbol was reclaimed from use as badges of shame in Nazi concentration camps, and through reappropriation have made these symbols for gay rights. The Greek letter lambda … Read more
It’s your first munch, eh? I bet you’re thinking… by ThoughtsofYou ORGY! ORGY! [- newbie] Whoa, slow your roll. [- oldie] Firstly, it’s nice to meet you and thanks for coming. I just want to clear some things up… Kink has a lot of reputations — good, bad, wrong and inexplicable. orgyyyyy Haha, yeah… Munches … Read more
Idiot’s guide to service by RideEmWet Service-y types: Hints and Tips Congratulations, you’re now the proud beneficiary of a service-y type. Whether you own, lease, operate, or merely find yourself in temporary care of that service-y type, this guide will suggest a few hints and tips for the use and care of your service-y type. … Read more
I shouldn’t have to tell you…Wyckeds_monkey Many moons ago outside of a private party I heard a submissive tell her Master, “I shouldn’t have to tell you what I want”. At the time I shrugged it off, not fully understanding the communication that’s required for a fruitful, working, involved relationship. How wrong she was! Communication … Read more
A man once told me, “I may hurt you, but I will never harm you.” It stuck with me. And I have thought, over the years, about the difference between the two. And I realize that I have had them both done to me, and it took those experiences to be able to tell the … Read more
They’re the hot item right now. Which is interesting because when I started in the kink community, there was still a lot of stigma around these identities. Littles, Baby Girls and Middles were often worried or ashamed to open up about this part of themselves. There were people at munches that would give dirty looks … Read more
Normally I would refrain from writing a post on Fet for numerous reasons, be it my age, my experience, or that I just don’t feel I have anything on my mind that absolutely NEEDS to be put up for the kink world to read. That being said, recently I have seen a few interesting posts … Read more
How to Make It Work – Tools for Healthy Polyamorous Relationships by Brian Frederick 1. Tell the Truth. Lasting relationships are built on trust. Trust is built on honesty. Honesty isn’t hard and it’s a good habit. Bite the bullet, tell the truth. If your relationship can’t weather it, you are in the wrong relationship; … Read more